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relationshipInfidelity
#RI-6a6b06a5·7 months ago·
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Weighing 20-year marriage vs. new relationship

Had an affair, wife found out, now considering divorce

What I wish I knew
"Communicate openly about relationship issues sooner"
If I could tell you one thing
"Infidelity can be a deal-breaker, but forgiveness is possible"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relationship Category
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