“Continued to hang out with friend despite concerns”

Item: Continued to hang out with friend despite concerns
Rating: 2
Author: u/idk1235689000

What Actually Happened

Friend's boyfriend's behavior continued to be toxic and draining

What I wish I knew

"How to effectively intervene without pushing friend away"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Communicate concerns openly and honestly with your friend, but also respect their boundaries"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

SettledMixedSevere

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Friendship Category

Friendship decisions logged. Avg regret 7/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

70%

of Friendship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.