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#RI-6a7aa90f·4 months ago·
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Lookback: almost a year

Initiated sex discussions with boyfriend

Boyfriend avoids sex, blames job and fatigue; I feel frustrated and pressured

What I wish I knew
"He'd be honest about his desires and issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about sex and intimacy"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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