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relationalinfidelity
#RI-6ad44612·about 2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year into our relationship

“Cheated on me before marriage”

Husband cheated on me with coworker while we were engaged

What I wish I knew
"He had cheated on me before we got married"
If I could tell you one thing
"Trust your instincts and investigate if you suspect something is wrong"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.