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#RI-69a9136d·2 months ago·
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I'm unsure if I'm the problem or building resentment

I've been leaving the house for my hobbies and side job without giving my husband a heads up, causing him to feel annoyed and resentful

What I wish I knew
"how to balance my needs with his"
If I could tell you one thing
"communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your needs and feelings"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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