Relationshipsinfidelity
#RI-69aa85eb·5 months ago·
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“I kept finding disturbing things on my boyfriend's phone after 4 years together”
What Actually Happened
I found messages on his phone from an ex I had never heard of, and he was also looking at porn that resembled her
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had known about his past infidelity before we got together"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be open and honest with your partner about your past and boundaries"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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