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#RI-69aa879a·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 2.5 years together

I constantly nag my boyfriend to complete simple requests

I've had to escalate to threats to get him to listen

What I wish I knew
"how to communicate effectively from the start"
If I could tell you one thing
"set clear expectations and consequences early on"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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