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#RI-6ae8a330·4 months ago·
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“Questioning our relationship after hurtful comments”

My wife made hurtful comments during sex, leaving me feeling broken and unloved. I'm now questioning our relationship and its future.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to communicate with her without feeling belittled."
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider seeking couples therapy to address underlying issues and strengthen the relationship."
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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