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#RI-6a7aa8f1·3 months ago·
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Lookback: 6 months into relationship

Boyfriend withheld information about children

Discovered boyfriend has children he never told me about

What I wish I knew
"To know about his children before dating"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about past and children"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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