relationalInfidelity
#RI-69aa883b·3 months ago·
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“Had an affair despite being in a relationship”
What Actually Happened
My wife had an affair, which was emotionally and sexually intimate, and she lied to me about it
What I wish I knew
"That she was unhappy in our relationship and would seek comfort elsewhere"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner to avoid similar situations"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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