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#RI-6ad7491a·3 months ago·
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“Act normal despite knowing the truth”

Caught partner in affair, feeling gaslighted and trapped

What I wish I knew
"How to compartmentalize anger and stay quiet"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek support, plan carefully before leaving"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.