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#RI-6a7aa992·17 days ago·
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Forgive or not forgive my boyfriend

My boyfriend admitted to flirting with another woman for work connections and breaking boundaries without being transparent

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to set clear boundaries and communicate my needs effectively"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners who use manipulation and gaslighting to justify their actions"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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