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#RI-6ae8a0e1·5 months ago·
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“Said something hurtful on a first date”
What Actually Happened
I said something hurtful to my boyfriend on our first date, comparing him to a celebrity. He's still hurt about it and brings it up often.
What I wish I knew
"I should have been more thoughtful with my words."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be considerate of your partner's feelings when discussing sensitive topics."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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