relationalguilt/indebtedness
#RI-6add7f14·3 months ago·
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“I feel indebted to my boyfriend for his generosity”
What Actually Happened
I feel guilty receiving things from him and worry he'll bring it up later
What I wish I knew
"how to communicate my needs without feeling ungrateful"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your needs openly and honestly, it's okay to ask for help"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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