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#RI-69a91215·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year of relationship

Expressed discomfort with boyfriend's close female friend

Felt uncomfortable and small when interacting with boyfriend's female friend, especially after a dramatic reveal at his graduation party

What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my feelings without making my boyfriend feel like I don't trust him"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings, and try to understand their perspective as well"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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