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#RI-69a91135·4 months ago·
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“Express concern about boyfriend's transformation”

Boyfriend became narcissistic after gym transformation, changed behavior and personality

What I wish I knew
"To address concerns earlier before they escalated"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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