relationshipsCommunication
#RI-69a91135·2 months ago·
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“Express concern about boyfriend's transformation”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend became narcissistic after gym transformation, changed behavior and personality
What I wish I knew
"To address concerns earlier before they escalated"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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