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#RI-6ae8a363·about 1 month ago·
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Lookback: 20 years

“Expected wife to demonstrate initiative after years of asking”

Felt alone and undesired in marriage despite being a good parent and partner

What I wish I knew
"Recognized signs of emotional avoidance earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly, but also set boundaries and prioritize own emotional needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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