RelationshipsStarting Over
#RI-6aaf5cab·3 months ago·
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“To leave a 20-year marriage”
What Actually Happened
Lost everything, 20 years of separation, and a damaged self-image
What I wish I knew
"To recognize the addiction sooner"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and self-reflection to regain confidence"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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