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Emotional InfidelityCheating with Coworker
#RI-6ae17410·2 months ago·
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“Stayed in relationship despite cheating”

Fiancée exchanged inappropriate messages with married coworker, had secret calls and meetups, but claims nothing physical happened.

What I wish I knew
"Communicated unhappiness instead of seeking attention elsewhere."
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek outside help to navigate relationship issues and rebuild trust."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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