relationalinfidelity
#RI-69ba78c6·4 months ago·
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“Considering divorce after husband's infidelity”
What Actually Happened
Husband had an affair with a coworker after they opened their marriage, and I stayed despite my initial decision to leave
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had set firmer boundaries and prioritized my own emotional well-being"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in a relationship that doesn't respect your boundaries and prioritize your own needs"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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