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#RI-6ae0233c·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 month into relationship

“boyfriend wants me to dress more provocatively”

He only finds me attractive in short skirts, uses 'tart' as a compliment, but it makes me feel bad

What I wish I knew
"how to address his immaturity"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries clearly and respectfully"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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