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RelationshipAge Gap
#RI-6add7f17·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 7 months

“Dated 21-year-old despite concerns about maturity and drive”

Lacked drive and maturity led to frustration and doubts

What I wish I knew
"Understood her needs and limitations better"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about concerns and needs from the start"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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