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#RI-69ba777d·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 months

dated my boyfriend despite his ex issues

I found out my boyfriend asked me out on the same day he told his ex she's the one for him, hurting me deeply

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew about his true feelings for his ex before dating him"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of partners with unresolved issues and communicate openly about their past relationships"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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