“I confronted my boyfriend about his fetish.”

Throwaway account.

My (30F) boyfriend (31M) and I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. Our relationship has been solid, he’s the best partner I’ve ever had. We love each other very much and we have a great sex life. We are very compatible in many ways and I see myself marrying him.

However, he’s had a very traumatic childhood due to negligent and sociopathic parents. He received no love and care from them, his needs were neglected, and he was the one who had to provide for them from