relationalcommunication
#RI-6ace3232·4 months ago·
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“Ask partner to satisfy me”
What Actually Happened
Partner complained about pleasing me, made me feel unappreciated and undesired
What I wish I knew
"He needs clear communication, not assumptions"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate desires clearly and respectfully"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
129
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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