Verified Submission
relationshipsCohabitation
#RI-69f86bf7·5 months ago·
1
Author avatar
Lookback: Unknown

My (28M) boyfriend refused to wash the dishes (24F)?

So my boyfriend never washes the dishes while I cook or even help to clean up after cooking. Honestly I find it tiring to cook and wash dishes.

He lets them pile up for a week and doesn’t bother cleaning them up until the dish becomes messed up. One time it lasted 3 weeks and eventually he cleaned them as he promised.

I told him this bothers me and he always says he will wash them. I do wash my plates and cups but his always stay there.

Lately I have been frustrated with the amount of dishe

What I wish I knew
"N/A"
If I could tell you one thing
"N/A"
0
5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
SettledMixedSevere

Advice for Someone Facing This

Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.

No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.

Discussion

React, question, or discuss this decision.

Sign into join the discussion
relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
16%
of relationships decisions land in the mixed band the same as this one.