relationaltrust issues
#RI-69aa85b5·3 months ago·
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“boyfriend talks to best friend about me behind my back”
What Actually Happened
He lies about our arguments and my behavior, making me feel insecure and misunderstood
What I wish I knew
"He's struggling with insecurity and depression"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and seek therapy together if needed"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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