Verified Submission
Relationshipstrust issues
#RI-69aa85b5·5 months ago·
1
Author avatar
Lookback: 1 year

“boyfriend talks to best friend about me behind my back”

He lies about our arguments and my behavior, making me feel insecure and misunderstood

What I wish I knew
"He's struggling with insecurity and depression"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and seek therapy together if needed"
0
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

Advice for Someone Facing This

Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.

No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.

Discussion

React, question, or discuss this decision.

Sign into join the discussion
Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.