Relationshipsabusive behavior
#RI-6a6b03de·9 months ago·
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“boyfriend told me to shut up”
What Actually Happened
He told me to shut up during dinner, hurting my feelings
What I wish I knew
"He should've communicated his feelings better"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and practice emotional regulation"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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