relationalinfidelity
#RI-69a91290·2 months ago·
1
“Boyfriend's excessive porn use and dishonesty have become unsustainable”
What Actually Happened
Found boyfriend watching porn, lied about it, and continued to do so despite previous breakups and discussions
What I wish I knew
"He would never change his behavior"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and expectations for honesty in relationships"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
Short, upvotable wisdom. The most helpful rises to the top.
No advice yet. Be the first to share wisdom.
relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
React, question, or discuss this decision.