relationshipsCommunication
#RI-69a912d8·2 months ago·
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“Boyfriend made me feel like my relationship wants are invalid”
What Actually Happened
He compared my desire for a genuine relationship to someone with diabetes wanting chocolate, implying it's unhealthy and unrealistic
What I wish I knew
"That he wouldn't belittle my desires and feelings"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and don't let them make you feel ashamed of your feelings"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
559
relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 6.7/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
57%
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