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#RI-6ac47288·about 2 months ago·
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“Boyfriend made hurtful comment about my weight”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend called me fat after I sent him photos of myself in new clothes, which hurt my feelings and made me feel like my hard work had been undone
What I wish I knew
"He should have been more considerate and sensitive to my feelings"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with your partner, but also be sensitive to their feelings and boundaries"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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