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#RI-69f867c0·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 months into our relationship

My boyfriend doesn't change his behavior around his female best friend

He's overly physical and touchy with her, whispers with her, shares date-coded activities, and sends her hearts and 'love you's

What I wish I knew
"He would be more considerate of how his behavior affects me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate your concerns openly and honestly with your partner"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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