RelationshipsLong Distance
#RI-6a6b03fa·9 months ago·
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“Expected boyfriend to show up after mum's death”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend unable to come due to medical cannabis and social anxiety, leading to hurt and anger
What I wish I knew
"He would've sorted passport and visa before my mum's death"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about expectations and limitations in long distance relationships"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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