RelationshipTrust Issues
#RI-6abf2ca9·7 months ago·
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“Defended his best friend over me”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend's best friend ignored me at a gathering, and he took her side when I mentioned it.
What I wish I knew
"His loyalty to his friend was a major red flag."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner and be aware of their relationships with others."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationship Category
370
Relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.3/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of Relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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