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#RI-6a7aa969·2 months ago·
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Lookback: After 3 years of relationship

Shutting down after boyfriend's mom passed away

Boyfriend changed after mom's passing, became distant and rude, and lied to me

What I wish I knew
"How to navigate his grief without sacrificing my own needs"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and set boundaries with your partner during difficult times"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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