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#RI-6ac32361·3 months ago·
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“choosing myself after affair”

My husband had an affair, lied about it, and hid his true behavior from me

What I wish I knew
"He was having an affair and hiding his true self"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for someone who cheats and lies"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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