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#RI-6a6b03b5·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 5 months together

boyfriend said hurtful things while drunk

Boyfriend said shut up, want me to batter you, and called himself a horrible c*nt and b**tard while drunk

What I wish I knew
"If he'd never drink or be honest about his behavior"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags and assess your partner's behavior when drunk"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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