RelationshipsAbuse
#RI-6a6b03b5·9 months ago·
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“boyfriend said hurtful things while drunk”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend said shut up, want me to batter you, and called himself a horrible c*nt and b**tard while drunk
What I wish I knew
"If he'd never drink or be honest about his behavior"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't ignore red flags and assess your partner's behavior when drunk"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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