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#RI-6ad98c0d·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 days before wedding

“left me completely blindsided”

My ex-fiancé packed up and left me after 6 years together, 3 days before our wedding

What I wish I knew
"He was struggling with deeper issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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