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#RI-6a7aaa9f·3 months ago·
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Blindsided by wife's divorce request

Wife wanted divorce after 20-year marriage, citing relationship issues and my addictions

What I wish I knew
"Signs of relationship issues and impact of my addictions"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and address issues before they escalate"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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