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Decisions about
Dating.

Explore thousands of structured choices related to Dating. Dive into what people wish they knew beforehand, tracked longitudinally.
Dating Overview
63%
average regret rate from live outcomes. Drops significantly over time.
Insight
39
recorded outcomes in this category alone.

The Dating Regret Curve

Detailed aggregate statistics and longitudinal curves for this category are being calculated from the dataset.

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Seeking advice online

I'm looking for white guys interested in black women

Regret Level2/10

Can't speak confidently on dates

Struggle with saying right things, bore women

Regret Level8/10

Lost faith in love due to dating apps

Dating apps made me think love is a game, people only look for physical appearance

Regret Level10/10

Dating women taller than me

Regret feeling self-conscious about height

Regret Level5/10

Telling a guy 'I didn't feel a spark' after a first date

I've had 4 dates where guys said they didn't feel a spark, leaving me confused and disappointed

Regret Level6/10

Going on a first date after a long time

Got nervous about being an introvert and not drinking

Regret Level8/10

asked girl out based on looks

she said yes, but humour mismatch

Regret Level2/10

Swiped right on Hinge despite self-perceived flaws

Matched with 4 attractive women on Hinge

Regret Level1/10

Partner didn't disclose herpes diagnosis before sex

Found medication in his bathroom, partner admitted to genital herpes

Regret Level8/10

Should I move on after a silent first date

He didn't respond after a good first date

Regret Level6/10

Dating a girl with high intimacy early on

Girl went quiet after lots of sex on dates, unsure if she's interested

Regret Level6/10

Not sharing enough about myself on dates

I've been misinterpreting girls' signals and not giving them enough to go on about me, leading to shallow connections and cancelled second dates

Regret Level8/10

Dating priced too high

Dating feels like a clusterfuck, people don't value loyalty and respect

Regret Level8/10

Sought advice on social media

Met guy at concert, got separated in mosh pit

Regret Level2/10

Rejected second date offer

He ghosted me after a promising date, then apologized two weeks later, citing mental health issues

Regret Level6/10

Moved from romance to friendship

Got minimal texting after being friends, hurting my feelings

Regret Level8/10

tired of dating apps

got lonely, felt not pretty enough

Regret Level8/10

Women want men to either try too hard or not enough

I see women pushing away men who show effort but trying to get guys who don't pursue them

Regret Level7/10

Continue dating her

We continued dating, but I wish she had disclosed sooner

Regret Level8/10

Dated guy from Hinge, slept together, unsure about his intentions

He said he isn't looking for anything serious, but I'm unsure if he'll change his mind

Regret Level6/10