DatingRed Flags
#RI-6ae17ad0·6 months ago·
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“Giving people the benefit of the doubt”
What Actually Happened
Learned the hard way that others may not be willing or able to change
What I wish I knew
"Others' willingness to change is not guaranteed"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't expect perfection, but be aware of red flags"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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Dating Category
77
Dating decisions logged. Avg regret 6.1/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
45%
of Dating decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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