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@u/One-Sorbet9583about 2 months ago
datingDating App
"Joined dating app without experience"
Went on two dates with guy who didn't text me much, felt discouraged and disappointed
What I wish I knew
"Dating without experience can be tough"
Advice

"Communicate openly and don't assume lack of interest"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/null_notabout 2 months ago
datingapp
"tried Hinge for first time"
Hinge removed my account without explanation
What I wish I knew
"verify selfie properly"
Advice

"be cautious with app setup"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/matchalattesquaredabout 2 months ago
datingDivorced Men
"Dating with curiosity"
Dating single dads with open heart
What I wish I knew
"Need to discuss childlessness openly"
Advice

"Be open about your own childlessness"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/Sea-Acadia-1110about 2 months ago
datingFirst Date
"Got close to a second date after a great connection"
He canceled our plans at the last minute, citing personal issues
What I wish I knew
"He was already interested in someone else"
Advice

"Be honest and direct if you're not interested in someone"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Either_Argument_583about 2 months ago
datingDating Apps
"Dating apps are intimidating in my city"
I feel overwhelmed by the competition on dating apps
What I wish I knew
"people with type A personalities dominate these platforms"
Advice

"be cautious of the competition on dating apps"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/jabronipepperoni_3 months ago
datingSelf-sabotage
"Dating friend during divorce"
Caught feelings for friend, struggled with guilt
What I wish I knew
"Be honest about intentions, respect boundaries"
Advice

"Don't mix healing with new relationships"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_SoulKingTrex9 months ago
datingSocial Skills
"Can't speak confidently on dates"
Struggle with saying right things, bore women
What I wish I knew
"How to make fashion better"
Advice

"Drop filter, be authentic"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_SugarCookie19959 months ago
datingFirst Date
"Going on a first date after a long time"
Got nervous about being an introvert and not drinking
What I wish I knew
"How to manage nerves without relying on alcohol"
Advice

"Dress comfortably and consider relaxation techniques"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_therealbananahunter10 months ago
datingDisappointing experiences
"dating multiple people"
Dates ended in disappointment, no connection
What I wish I knew
"how to find genuine connections"
Advice

"look for shared interests"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_890R10 months ago
datingOnline Dating
"Dating a woman 7 years younger, successful, and beautiful"
Talking to a woman who seems genuine, but I'm unsure if she's real or just a bot
What I wish I knew
"More about her intentions and what she's looking for"
Advice

"Don't be too quick to judge based on physical appearance or success level"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_No_Bodybuilder742510 months ago
datingRelationship Dynamics
"Following a predictable dating pattern"
Guys try to initiate sex on third date, ghost me when I say no
What I wish I knew
"Guys respect boundaries and wait for connection"
Advice

"Communicate boundaries clearly and respect others' boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Willbobaggins6912 months ago
datingGhosting
"Going on second dates despite ghosting"
Consistently getting ghosted after first dates
What I wish I knew
"Ghosting patterns might be a red flag"
Advice

"Ask questions and set clear expectations on the first date"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_unidentifiedbeaverabout 1 year ago
datingHerpes Disclosure
"Continue dating her"
We continued dating, but I wish she had disclosed sooner
What I wish I knew
"She had disclosed sooner"
Advice

"Communicate openly about STIs and be honest about your history"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_earthbound36784about 1 year ago
datingDifficulty Getting Dates
"Settling for dates with non-preferred partners"
I'm 28 and still a virgin, struggling to get more than one date a month
What I wish I knew
"What I'm doing wrong to get more dates"
Advice

"Don't settle for less than what you want"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_unicorngirl14about 1 year ago
datingGhosting
"Rejected second date offer"
He ghosted me after a promising date, then apologized two weeks later, citing mental health issues
What I wish I knew
"More about his mental health situation before considering a second date"
Advice

"Don't tolerate ghosting, communicate openly about boundaries"

6/10 regret
0
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@u_PrestigiousGur289about 1 year ago
datingGhosting
"Stepping back from dating"
Exhausted from dating women who are emotionally unavailable
What I wish I knew
"How to spot red flags earlier"
Advice

"Don't chase people who are not ready to show up"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_flexperienceabout 1 year ago
datingIntimacy
"Dating a girl with high intimacy early on"
Girl went quiet after lots of sex on dates, unsure if she's interested
What I wish I knew
"Understand her boundaries and comfort level"
Advice

"Communicate openly and don't take silence personally"

6/10 regret
0
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@u__eliza_thornberryabout 1 year ago
datingInfidelity
"Partner didn't disclose herpes diagnosis before sex"
Found medication in his bathroom, partner admitted to genital herpes
What I wish I knew
"Disclosed diagnosis before intimacy"
Advice

"Communicate openly about health concerns before sex"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_brokenhiker33about 1 year ago
datingCommunication
"Not sharing enough about myself on dates"
I've been misinterpreting girls' signals and not giving them enough to go on about me, leading to shallow connections and cancelled second dates
What I wish I knew
"How to balance sharing enough about myself without coming on too strong or overwhelming others"
Advice

"Be more open and authentic about your life and interests on dates to build deeper connections"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_TrickAd9270about 1 year ago
datingRacial preferences
"Seeking advice online"
I'm looking for white guys interested in black women
What I wish I knew
"More about their intentions"
Advice

"Be cautious and communicate openly"

2/10 regret
0