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@u_SoulKingTrex7 months ago
datingSocial Skills
"Can't speak confidently on dates"
Struggle with saying right things, bore women
What I wish I knew
"How to make fashion better"
Advice

"Drop filter, be authentic"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_SugarCookie19957 months ago
datingFirst Date
"Going on a first date after a long time"
Got nervous about being an introvert and not drinking
What I wish I knew
"How to manage nerves without relying on alcohol"
Advice

"Dress comfortably and consider relaxation techniques"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_therealbananahunter8 months ago
datingDisappointing experiences
"dating multiple people"
Dates ended in disappointment, no connection
What I wish I knew
"how to find genuine connections"
Advice

"look for shared interests"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_890R8 months ago
datingOnline Dating
"Dating a woman 7 years younger, successful, and beautiful"
Talking to a woman who seems genuine, but I'm unsure if she's real or just a bot
What I wish I knew
"More about her intentions and what she's looking for"
Advice

"Don't be too quick to judge based on physical appearance or success level"

2/10 regret
0
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@u_No_Bodybuilder74258 months ago
datingRelationship Dynamics
"Following a predictable dating pattern"
Guys try to initiate sex on third date, ghost me when I say no
What I wish I knew
"Guys respect boundaries and wait for connection"
Advice

"Communicate boundaries clearly and respect others' boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Willbobaggins6910 months ago
datingGhosting
"Going on second dates despite ghosting"
Consistently getting ghosted after first dates
What I wish I knew
"Ghosting patterns might be a red flag"
Advice

"Ask questions and set clear expectations on the first date"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_unidentifiedbeaver11 months ago
datingHerpes Disclosure
"Continue dating her"
We continued dating, but I wish she had disclosed sooner
What I wish I knew
"She had disclosed sooner"
Advice

"Communicate openly about STIs and be honest about your history"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_earthbound3678411 months ago
datingDifficulty Getting Dates
"Settling for dates with non-preferred partners"
I'm 28 and still a virgin, struggling to get more than one date a month
What I wish I knew
"What I'm doing wrong to get more dates"
Advice

"Don't settle for less than what you want"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_unicorngirl1411 months ago
datingGhosting
"Rejected second date offer"
He ghosted me after a promising date, then apologized two weeks later, citing mental health issues
What I wish I knew
"More about his mental health situation before considering a second date"
Advice

"Don't tolerate ghosting, communicate openly about boundaries"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u_PrestigiousGur28911 months ago
datingGhosting
"Stepping back from dating"
Exhausted from dating women who are emotionally unavailable
What I wish I knew
"How to spot red flags earlier"
Advice

"Don't chase people who are not ready to show up"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_flexperience12 months ago
datingIntimacy
"Dating a girl with high intimacy early on"
Girl went quiet after lots of sex on dates, unsure if she's interested
What I wish I knew
"Understand her boundaries and comfort level"
Advice

"Communicate openly and don't take silence personally"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u__eliza_thornberry12 months ago
datingInfidelity
"Partner didn't disclose herpes diagnosis before sex"
Found medication in his bathroom, partner admitted to genital herpes
What I wish I knew
"Disclosed diagnosis before intimacy"
Advice

"Communicate openly about health concerns before sex"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_brokenhiker33about 1 year ago
datingCommunication
"Not sharing enough about myself on dates"
I've been misinterpreting girls' signals and not giving them enough to go on about me, leading to shallow connections and cancelled second dates
What I wish I knew
"How to balance sharing enough about myself without coming on too strong or overwhelming others"
Advice

"Be more open and authentic about your life and interests on dates to build deeper connections"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u_TrickAd9270about 1 year ago
datingRacial preferences
"Seeking advice online"
I'm looking for white guys interested in black women
What I wish I knew
"More about their intentions"
Advice

"Be cautious and communicate openly"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u__eliza_thornberryabout 1 year ago
datingDiscovered partner's secret
"Didn't disclose herpes diagnosis"
Found medication, partner admitted to genital herpes
What I wish I knew
"Disclosed diagnosis before intimacy"
Advice

"Communicate openly about health risks"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_Serious_Swordfish_43over 1 year ago
datingApp Culture
"Lost faith in love due to dating apps"
Dating apps made me think love is a game, people only look for physical appearance
What I wish I knew
"Love shouldn't be a game, genuine connections matter"
Advice

"Be cautious of superficial relationships"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u_Global-Condition-858over 1 year ago
datingSense of Self
"Compromise my values for a partner"
I lost my sense of self while dating, compromising my values for a partner
What I wish I knew
"I should have stood by my values and preferences"
Advice

"Maintain your sense of self and communicate your values and preferences clearly"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_CyberDEV448over 1 year ago
datingOnline Dating
"Sliding into random girls DM on Snapchat"
Some girls replied and sent me streaks, one gave me her Instagram account
What I wish I knew
"If it's/footer approach"
Advice

"Be genuine and respectful"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u_ToastyCinemaRunnerover 1 year ago
datingLack of meaningful relationships
"questioning my attractiveness"
I've been single and unable to find a long-term relationship despite improvements in my life
What I wish I knew
"what I lost that made me undesirable"
Advice

"don't assume it's just a self-esteem issue"

8/10 regret
0
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@u_dont_mess_with_my_over 1 year ago
datingFirst Time
"Dated for the first time at 26"
I'm trying to navigate dating after depression
What I wish I knew
"More about relationships and social skills"
Advice

"Be open and honest about mental health"

2/10 regret
0