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@u/qtrippabout 14 hours ago
worknepotism
"Moved to a new area for a job in the cannabis industry"
I felt like an outsider in a tight-knit community and was unfairly fired after one late arrival.
What I wish I knew
"The company had a strong nepotistic culture that made it difficult for outsiders to succeed."
Advice

"Be cautious of companies with strong social connections and nepotism."

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/coldzasabout 16 hours ago
workjob
"quit job for second time due to toxic boss"
my boss was cartoonishly evil, bullied me and other coworkers
What I wish I knew
"to avoid the job and its toxic manager"
Advice

"don't tolerate workplace bullying"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Affectionate-Reason2about 18 hours ago
workJob Security
"Hours cut, concern about being fired"
Hours cut, GM hiring more people, coworker commented about boss's concerns
What I wish I knew
"Communicate with management about concerns"
Advice

"Communicate concerns and take initiative to improve performance"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Basic-Ear6164about 19 hours ago
workteam dynamics
"Allow divas to dominate presentation"
Felt betrayed by team members who wasted speakers' time
What I wish I knew
"Team members' selfishness would ruin presentation"
Advice

"Communicate clearly and set boundaries in team settings"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Substantial-Thing-43about 23 hours ago
workcoworker issues
"Not defending myself"
Coworkers constantly criticize and blame me
What I wish I knew
"Communicate boundaries more clearly"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries with coworkers"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/buttflapper4441 day ago
workmotivation
"To succeed at work without cocaine"
I'm tired of pretending to be motivated, but laid off and struggling
What I wish I knew
"There's no point in faking it"
Advice

"Find genuine reasons to be motivated"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Embarrassed_Log_99641 day ago
workManager
"Prioritize OpenClaw over work"
I invested more time in OpenClaw, felt more valued
What I wish I knew
"Manager's priorities before committing"
Advice

"Communicate with manager before allocating time"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Sunshineal1 day ago
workJob
"Avoided job with promise of low drama"
I avoided a job that seemed too good to be true, and it turned out to be a blessing in disguise
What I wish I knew
"Job ads often downplay workplace drama"
Advice

"Be wary of job ads that promise low drama"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u/IWouldntIn19811 day ago
workRedundant Tasks
"Copying and pasting reports"
Copying reports with incorrect assumptions
What I wish I knew
"Verify assumptions before reporting"
Advice

"Communicate with finance directly"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/RonBreakfast1 day ago
workbad boss
"Tolerate abusive boss for 20 years"
Suffered physical and mental punishment, didn't speak up or leave job
What I wish I knew
"Set boundaries and prioritize self-care"
Advice

"Don't tolerate abusive behavior, prioritize your well-being"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/MaleficentCherry71161 day ago
workconflicting priorities
"Constantly getting conflicting priorities from manager"
Manager frequently gives me conflicting deadlines and then criticizes me when one is missed
What I wish I knew
"Be more assertive in communicating with manager"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries and expectations with manager"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Accurate-Long-2592 days ago
workcorporate culture
"experienced unusual prayer before meetings"
I was shocked by prayer before meetings
What I wish I knew
"it was normal"
Advice

"be open to differences"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Sufficient-Paint-5342 days ago
workmanagement
"Resist taking on extra tasks"
Manager accused me of attitude issues for not taking on extra tasks
What I wish I knew
"I should have set clear boundaries earlier"
Advice

"Don't let a toxic manager dictate your workload"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/BlackEyed_Knight2 days ago
workDollar Store
"Asked for day off for high school reunion"
Manager hinted at talking to me about 'zany requests'
What I wish I knew
"How to handle manager's concerns"
Advice

"Communicate clearly and respectfully"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Mean-Razzmatazz-48862 days ago
workcommute time
"Count commute time as work time"
I'd have more free time
What I wish I knew
"Pay is not the only factor"
Advice

"Value time as much as pay"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u/snarkisms2 days ago
workmanagement
"Applied to job with unrealistic expectations"
Manager disregarded my availability, scheduled me for early shift, I quit
What I wish I knew
"To question management's authority more"
Advice

"Don't underestimate the power of saying no"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/trobbs_8 days ago
workManagerial Issues
"Speak up or stay quiet"
Manager's toxic behavior drains morale, some leave
What I wish I knew
"Potential consequences of speaking up"
Advice

"Be honest, but consider the risks"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Fun-Habit25838 days ago
workdifficult superior
"assert myself"
My self-esteem has suffered due to constant accusations and nagging
What I wish I knew
"to stand up for myself earlier"
Advice

"don't let fear of sabotage hold you back from asserting yourself"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Plastic_Confusion6009 days ago
workJob Stress
"Want to quit my job due to stress and anxiety"
Manager's attitude and behavior created a stressful and unpredictable work environment
What I wish I knew
"I should have spoken up sooner about my concerns"
Advice

"Don't let guilt hold you back from making a decision that's best for you"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/MufflePuf9 days ago
workburnout
"Quit job without another lined up"
Worked in a toxic environment, felt degraded, and burnt out
What I wish I knew
"To prioritize mental health over a paycheck"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to take a leap of faith for your well-being"

8/10 regret
0