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@u/King_of_Lunch223about 2 months ago
workformer employer
"Dreams about toxic former job"
Toxic job triggers stressful dreams
What I wish I knew
"Why old stress lingers"
Advice

"Addressing past stress can help"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/whatevvzzzabout 2 months ago
workmeeting
"Don't care about work tasks"
Faking enthusiasm at work, feeling unfulfilled
What I wish I knew
"There's more to life than just getting by"
Advice

"Find meaning in your work or change careers"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/shibalvr97about 2 months ago
workOffice
"Going to work feels like a prison"
I feel trapped in my job due to long commutes, lack of privacy, and strict rules
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew the company culture before accepting the job"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to question and challenge the norms"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/FoldingTheMapabout 2 months ago
worknew job
"got a new job thinking it was a good fit"
got catfished by my new manager, he's a micromanager
What I wish I knew
"research the company culture before accepting a job"
Advice

"don't be fooled by a company's image, look deeper"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Additional_Peak_153about 2 months ago
workpayroll
"Fought for employee's regrade and back pay"
Quietly done extra work for 2 years without pay increase
What I wish I knew
"Check pay policy before dismissing employee's concerns"
Advice

"Document evidence and escalate to higher authority if necessary"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Thesladenatorabout 2 months ago
workColleague's death
"Didn't know him well"
Died of a heart attack after work, announced via email
What I wish I knew
"He'd have spent last day with family"
Advice

"Appreciate people around you"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/LawfulnessLow2149about 2 months ago
workmanager expectations
"stood up for myself on holiday"
my manager was annoyed when I didn't reply to a work call on my day off
What I wish I knew
"managers often take it personally when employees set boundaries"
Advice

"set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Key-Structure4841about 2 months ago
workcoworker
"judged her too quickly"
judged her too quickly, now see her genius
What I wish I knew
"appreciate different work styles"
Advice

"don't judge others too quickly"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/rajapawsabout 2 months ago
workjob loss
"Server followed management instructions"
I lost my job after following orders
What I wish I knew
"to question management's instructions"
Advice

"question authority before following orders"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/jules01234about 2 months ago
workCommunication
"I need to change my boss's perception of me"
My boss thinks I'm not asking enough questions, but I'm actually doing my job well
What I wish I knew
"What my boss wants from me in terms of communication"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries and communicate your needs to your employer"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/ThisTranslator2172about 2 months ago
workculinary management
"Burning out as single mom"
Constantly covering for others, exhausted and isolated
What I wish I knew
"How to manage stress and prioritize self-care"
Advice

"Seek help and prioritize own needs"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/MuscleAppropriate2 months ago
workMSP
"asked for help"
Got a stern talking to from CEO for making a mistake during training
What I wish I knew
"Asking for help isn't discouraged, but assertive communication is valued"
Advice

"Be prepared for direct and blunt feedback in corporate jobs"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Accomplished-Moment22 months ago
workJob Hiring
"Hiring process for entry level jobs is too lengthy"
I've had to go through multiple interviews for entry level jobs
What I wish I knew
"Hiring process could be simplified"
Advice

"Look for companies with a more straightforward hiring process"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/EnvironmentalPost2452 months ago
workManager's Decision
"Denied my request for time off despite being out of state"
My manager scheduled me for a weekend I couldn't work, risking team failure
What I wish I knew
"My manager's thought process behind denying my request"
Advice

"Communicate clearly with your team about scheduling conflicts"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Creative-Heat-45122 months ago
workline manager
"Moved back to original desk"
My line manager's behavior has been confusing and unsettling, making me feel like I'm being isolated and controlled
What I wish I knew
"Being more assertive about setting boundaries and communicating my needs"
Advice

"Don't be afraid to speak up and advocate for yourself in a new work environment"

4/10 regret
0
Author
@u/SpeckiLP2 months ago
workseverance
"Got let go after PIP was handed to me"
Got fired without chance to improve
What I wish I knew
"PIP may be used as legal cover"
Advice

"Negotiate a better exit package"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Shoddy-Yam-93322 months ago
workOffice Life
"Hate 9-5 office jobs"
Waste time pretending to be busy
What I wish I knew
"9-5 isn't for me"
Advice

"Find alternative work arrangements"

10/10 regret
0
Author
@u/MILFinurhood2 months ago
workTransportation
"Boss asked me to take public transit"
My car broke down and my boss asked me to take public transit
What I wish I knew
"My boss would be understanding of my situation"
Advice

"Communicate your needs clearly with your employer"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/StreetInsurance32032 months ago
worktraining
"I'm dreading what's to come on Friday"
I'm experiencing anxiety attacks and headaches due to excessive stress from my job
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to handle the pressure and expectations"
Advice

"Don't take a job that doesn't provide a grace period for training"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/neverbeenstardust2 months ago
workgym
"Encouraged lifeguard to take break"
Told lifeguard to take break, backed them up
What I wish I knew
"How to empower lifeguards sooner"
Advice

"Support employees in self-advocacy"

1/10 regret
0