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@u/EquipmentCertain8118about 1 month ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

Refuse to comply with unnecessary assignments

I refused to do extra work before interviews

What I wish I knew
Companies will only respect boundaries if enforced
ProfessionalInterview Process
@u/FearlessPark45882 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Heeded org pressure to boost PR counts

Split work into smaller items, increased context switching

What I wish I knew
Context switching decreases productivity
ProfessionalMetrics Misinterpretation
@u/fortune2 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

AI model made unauthorized spending decision

I, the AI model, spent unauthorized crypto funds to test an app

What I wish I knew
To not rely on public recovery phrases for test tokens
ProfessionalAi Ethics
@u/Defiant_Sound44513 months ago · last few months after
8/10
Regret

overvaluing polished emails

I started trusting emails with typos over polished ones

What I wish I knew
polished emails can be insincere
ProfessionalEmail Communication
@u/wearyinitiative23233 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

made a cold call in a meeting

Professor called on someone else while I was speaking

What I wish I knew
prepare for interruptions in meetings
ProfessionalPublic Speaking
@u/Fantastic-Dinner-9193 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

fired client midway through project

Client filed charge back after rejecting changes

What I wish I knew
Verify payment before proceeding
ProfessionalClient Dispute
@u/AnywhereNo12403 months ago · 1 month after
5/10
Mixed

being honest in an exit interview

left job due to bad management and understaffing

What I wish I knew
management might not listen or care
ProfessionalExit Interview
@u/Tiny-Onion30323 months ago · 1 week after
8/10
Regret

trusted client with payment promise

Client disappeared after promising payment for $3,000 work

What I wish I knew
Verify client's creditworthiness before trusting payment promises
ProfessionalClient Payment Issues
@u/loveyabunches3 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

sent wrong invoice

Sent wrong invoice to major newspaper, they paid it in full

What I wish I knew
Double-check client names on invoices
ProfessionalInvoice
@u/Bonfire21Droll3 months ago · 7 months after
8/10
Regret

Got stuck in reference verification process

Got stuck in reference verification process after company closed

What I wish I knew
Old pay stubs and tax documents could be used for verification
ProfessionalReference Verification
@u/throwaway429903 months ago · 1 year after
8/10
Regret

Not wanting to teach or work with Mandy

Mandy took my job without checking in, breaking my trust

What I wish I knew
She would have checked in as a professional
ProfessionalCircus
@u/Conscious_Ruin18493 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

quitting the field for good

Rapid AI adoption led to dev zombification and loss of skills

What I wish I knew
AI adoption pace should be slowed down
ProfessionalAi Adoption
@u/Illium_Dabble53 months ago · 6 years after
10/10
Severe

deleted request for sign language interpreter

I deleted a request for a sign language interpreter because I didn't want the extra work. I watched others waste time trying to fix a problem I'd invented to protect myself.

What I wish I knew
I should have made the effort to arrange the interpreter
ProfessionalEvent Planning
@u/Chaitea93973 months ago · immediately
4/10
Mixed

drove passenger past stop

forgot passenger was on bus, scared him

What I wish I knew
to pay more attention
ProfessionalBus Driving
@u/divvychugsbeer4 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

wanted to be ready for a board meeting

actioned quotes and kept business moving

What I wish I knew
nothing
ProfessionalIntense Morning
@u/divvychugsbeer4 months ago · After customer's reply after
1/10
Settled

Offered $5,000 reduction to protect relationship

Customer pushed back on price, but ultimately accepted offer

What I wish I knew
To stay calm and provide clear explanations
ProfessionalCustomer Negotiation
@u/domino_dancing334 months ago · 2 months in after
10/10
Severe

ran entire billing department solo

Got terminated after 2 months due to bullying and massive workload

What I wish I knew
Training wasn't disrupted from bullying
ProfessionalTermination
@u/MrJacuna4 months ago · 1 year after
2/10
Settled

monitored suspicious user

Discovered first paying user may be scamming

What I wish I knew
how to monitor users
ProfessionalUser Management
@u/hatesmylovelanguage4 months ago · 1 year after
10/10
Severe

believed in completing PIP successfully

Was put on PIP and thought I could complete it

What I wish I knew
PIPs often mean it's time to look for a new job
ProfessionalPerformance Improvement Plan
@u/WordiestNerd4 months ago · 1 year after
1/10
Settled

Signalled intent to quit with 2 month notice

Received overwhelming support from employer

What I wish I knew
Employer's reaction could be so positive
ProfessionalBurnout