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@u/YamCreepy702313 days ago
professionalunderperformance
"Quiet quitting to get promotion"
I've done the bare minimum at work, but got a promotion and raise
What I wish I knew
"There's no correlation between effort and success"
Advice

"Don't rely on being seen as motivated, put in actual effort"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/LGm1713 days ago
professionalcareer development
"Company slow to adopt AI tools"
I've missed opportunities to learn and grow in my career due to company's slow adoption of AI
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to navigate the risk vs benefit of AI in a highly regulated industry"
Advice

"Consider supplementing your skills outside of work to stay competitive in the long run"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/thrwowaway737848414 days ago
professionaljob expectations
"accepted job interviews elsewhere"
discovered new job has restrictive holiday policy
What I wish I knew
"asked about holiday policies before accepting job"
Advice

"research company policies before accepting a job"

2/10 regret
0
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@u/Individual-Loan480214 days ago
professionaltransportation
"car broke down, walking/biking to work"
no major issues so far, just a convenient walk
What I wish I knew
"more about local bike paths"
Advice

"pack essentials like hairbrush and sunscreen"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/Primary_Cat_591114 days ago
professionalfavoritism
"left job due to favoritism"
Was perceived as favorite at work, leading to monitoring and reporting of private conversations
What I wish I knew
"How to navigate favoritism without being targeted"
Advice

"Be aware of team dynamics and potential favoritism"

2/10 regret
0
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@u/ImpressiveString514814 days ago
professionalrecruiter experience
"I withdrew my application"
Had a disastrous phone interview with a recruiter who was condescending, unapologetic, and dishonest about the job requirements and salary.
What I wish I knew
"To research the company and recruiter before applying"
Advice

"Be cautious of red flags and don't be afraid to withdraw your application if you feel disrespected or misled"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Devilsline14 days ago
professionaljob loss
"Dad gave 30 years to a company"
New owner destroyed my dad's life's work, ruined the plant, and caused financial fraud
What I wish I knew
"How to prevent such a corrupt owner from taking over"
Advice

"Do not trust a company's leadership if they are corrupt and do not care about their employees or the community"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/GathTheKing14 days ago
professionaluncertainty
"Received PIP with deadline"
Overwhelmed, made mistakes, now uncertain about job
What I wish I knew
"To better manage expectations"
Advice

"Communicate openly with management"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Level-Sun-860514 days ago
professionalrecruitment
"managed schedules leave too much guesswork"
Recruiters fill blank with smaller job
What I wish I knew
"Specify context for action"
Advice

"Include specifics in bullet points"

6/10 regret
0
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@u/AdventurousLivin14 days ago
professionalcommunication
"developing strong communication skills"
I've noticed colleagues who lack these skills struggle to advance
What I wish I knew
"how crucial soft skills are for career growth"
Advice

"focus on developing strong communication skills"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/allshookup1640about 1 month ago
professionalworkplace bullying
"Moved 800 miles for job"
Constantly bullied by coworker, struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts
What I wish I knew
"Research the company culture before relocating"
Advice

"Prioritize mental health and seek help if experiencing workplace bullying"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/OrinIncandenza1about 1 month ago
professionalcareer change
"Considering a move to coastal Maine for a better quality of life"
We're leaving a stable life in upstate New York for a more interesting community and environment
What I wish I knew
"More about the Maine market and potential challenges"
Advice

"Carefully consider the financial implications and potential lifestyle changes"

5/10 regret
0
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@u/OpeningVariableabout 1 month ago
professionalData Management
"Managing data labelling vendors instead of research"
Vendors provided low-quality data, consumed research time
What I wish I knew
"Quality control needs constant attention"
Advice

"Don't underestimate vendor management in data projects"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Mobile-Warning-4510about 1 month ago
professionalJob Search
"Applied to multiple job openings"
Experienced harassment from multiple hiring managers
What I wish I knew
"To be more cautious of red flags"
Advice

"Research companies thoroughly before applying"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Excellent-Ad676about 1 month ago
professionalattitude
"letting work demands shape me"
tolerated abuse from customers and staff
What I wish I knew
"value own worth over market demand"
Advice

"don't conform to societal expectations"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/Temporary-Profile-27about 1 month ago
professionalpoor management
"Quit job after 1 day"
Manager showed disrespect by ignoring my schedule requests
What I wish I knew
"To research company culture before applying"
Advice

"Don't ignore red flags, trust your instincts"

1/10 regret
0
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@u/Party_Attitude5617about 2 months ago
professionalCommunication
"Feeling overly managed as an adult"
HR is sending me too many reminders
What I wish I knew
"Communicate expectations clearly"
Advice

"Set clear boundaries with management"

2/10 regret
0
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@u/vtfb79about 2 months ago
professionalLayoffs
"Posting about conflicted feelings"
I see coworkers posting about their conflicted feelings
What I wish I knew
"Center the right person in the story"
Advice

"Don't post about conflicted feelings first"

3/10 regret
0
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@u/RFey1918about 2 months ago
professionalJob Change
"Quit job due to lies about work conditions"
Started new job, realized it wasn't a good fit due to lies about work conditions
What I wish I knew
"To thoroughly research the company before accepting a job offer"
Advice

"Don't burn professional bridges, give notice even if you're leaving due to bad circumstances"

2/10 regret
0
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@u/Ivy1974about 2 months ago
professionalJob Search
"hang up on foreign recruiters"
Hang up on foreign recruiters due to language barrier
What I wish I knew
"Verify recruiter's language skills before calls"
Advice

"Be cautious of job offers from unknown international recruiters"

6/10 regret
0