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@u/JerryJeremyabout 2 months ago
professionalEquity
"My boss gave me 15% equity instead of a raise"
Now I owe $14k in estimated taxes for profits I’m not allowed to touch
What I wish I knew
"Equity doesn’t always mean cash"
Advice

"Read your Operating Agreement carefully"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Silent-Forest-8392about 2 months ago
professionaltime management
"delay sending completed work to clients"
I delay sending work to protect my mental bandwidth
What I wish I knew
"the impact on client relationships"
Advice

"consider the cost of delay"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Big_Manufacturer_585about 2 months ago
professionalAPI design
"Trusted Google Cloud with customer data"
Third party abused API key, ran up charges, and froze access to user data
What I wish I knew
"API keys can be used for unintended services"
Advice

"Verify security and billing settings in Google Cloud"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/Ready_Affect_7227about 2 months ago
professionalclient relations
"Exploded in anger at client contact"
Got condescending questions from client contact, exploded in anger, hung up abruptly
What I wish I knew
"How to handle condescending tone from client"
Advice

"Stay calm and professional, even in difficult situations"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/BulkyOwl3005about 2 months ago
professionalClient Management
"Dropped unresponsive client after 13 years"
Told client I couldn't help due to lack of responsiveness and clear issues
What I wish I knew
"To set boundaries earlier"
Advice

"Be clear and direct with clients about expectations"

7/10 regret
0
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@u/Wooden_Week_8965about 2 months ago
professionalclient relations
"taking revenge on former client"
They dropped me without notice and didn't pay my last invoice
What I wish I knew
"To expect this behavior from a long-term client"
Advice

"Don't let spite cloud your judgment"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/bizsupporterabout 2 months ago
professionalcontract negotiation
"Offered a contract with 0% upfront payment"
Covering costs out of pocket before payment
What I wish I knew
"Review contract terms more carefully"
Advice

"Negotiate upfront payment or better payment terms"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/dafuqkittyabout 2 months ago
professionalJob Issues
"Started a new job despite concerns"
Owed pay after a month of work, owner unresponsive
What I wish I knew
"Checked payment method before accepting job"
Advice

"Research company thoroughly before accepting a job"

8/10 regret
0
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@u/rashmi07dzabout 2 months ago
professionalcompany review
"Considering a job offer from Vidal Health"
My friend received a job offer from Vidal Health
What I wish I knew
"More about the company's work culture"
Advice

"Research the company thoroughly before joining"

5/10 regret
0
Author
@u/floored_pickleabout 2 months ago
professionalStartup
"Started a service business"
Feeling uncertain about business idea and lead generation
What I wish I knew
"How to validate business idea and generate leads"
Advice

"Conduct thorough market research and seek real feedback"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/ImIncredibly_stupidabout 2 months ago
professionalInterviews
"Company cancelled interview at last minute"
Company cancelled interview twice, rescheduled without notice
What I wish I knew
"To be more assertive in defending my time"
Advice

"Be prepared for last-minute changes and don't be afraid to speak up"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Intelligent_Bag4373about 2 months ago
professionalInterviewing
"Got stood up for a phone interview"
Got a confirmed interview invite, but no call or response after multiple attempts
What I wish I knew
"To follow up more assertively"
Advice

"Don't assume it's just busy, follow up multiple times"

6/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Ready_Affect_7227about 2 months ago
professionalclient relations
"Lost temper with condescending client contact"
Received condescending questions, exploded in anger, hung up
What I wish I knew
"How to handle condescending tone without losing temper"
Advice

"Stay calm, set clear boundaries"

8/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Sea_Appointment8408about 2 months ago
professionalClient Management
"Prioritize mental health over financial gain"
Culled high-maintenance clients to focus on well-being
What I wish I knew
"Client needs assessment before taking on work"
Advice

"Set boundaries to maintain work-life balance"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/mylonsabout 2 months ago
professionalCareer
"Started a contracting engagement"
Discovered a competitor after a few weeks of work, dejected and depressed
What I wish I knew
"Research the market before starting a new engagement"
Advice

"Be cautious of unserviced niches and don't underestimate the competition"

10/10 regret
0
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@u/AlphaWolf132about 2 months ago
professionalcareer development
"Don't believe I'm not good enough for international clients"
I ghostwrote for clients worldwide, proving my value
What I wish I knew
"Nothing, I was correct in my approach"
Advice

"Trust your skills, not your background"

1/10 regret
0
Author
@u/fiercebabybear88about 2 months ago
professionalManager
"Missed manager at work"
Missed my manager while she was on vacation
What I wish I knew
"How much she'd be missed"
Advice

"Get to know your manager"

2/10 regret
0
Author
@u/Glum-Dark281about 2 months ago
professionalworkplace dynamics
"Boss forgets employee experience after starting own business"
Boss demands excessive work from me, forgetting his own past struggles
What I wish I knew
"Being a boss doesn't change your past"
Advice

"Communicate boundaries clearly"

7/10 regret
0
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@u/Fantastic-Toe9905about 2 months ago
professionalclient management
"Working with difficult clients"
Dealing with a nightmare client who constantly changed his mind and added scope creep, causing me to work excessive hours and leading to burnout.
What I wish I knew
"To set clear boundaries and expectations with clients from the start."
Advice

"Be prepared to walk away from clients who are not respectful of your time and boundaries."

10/10 regret
0
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@u/aeiou403about 2 months ago
professionalNetworking
"Reach out after a month, reevaluate the relationship"
I sent a follow-up, but got no response, damaging my self-esteem
What I wish I knew
"Not to invest too much in this connection"
Advice

"Be cautious with people who don't follow through on their promises"

8/10 regret
0