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@u/IllithidKnot3 months ago · 4 months into divorce process after
7/10
Regret

realizing extent of shared systems

discovering tiny systems built together

What I wish I knew
anticipating complexity of separation
DivorceUn-Meshing Administrative Tasks
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@u/Empty_Kitchen_36314 months ago · 1 year after
5/10
Mixed

dating again after divorce

terrified of getting naked for another man

What I wish I knew
body image issues affect intimacy
DivorceDating After Divorce
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@u/Wonderful_Ant_74715 months ago · 10 months after
8/10
Regret

married him despite concerns

experiencing unfair divorce after 10 months

What I wish I knew
knew his true intentions sooner
DivorceUnfair
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@u/Few_Guarantee_17376 months ago · 4 years after
8/10
Regret

marriage

I stopped paying attention to my partner, leading to a comfortable but untruthful narrative about being wronged. This led to a loss of connection and eventual divorce.

What I wish I knew
I should have prioritized being a partner over being a provider.
DivorcePersonal Growth
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@u/BuzzEightFive6 months ago · 1 year after
5/10
Mixed

going through divorce after 18 years

Losing my best friend and marriage after 18 years

What I wish I knew
How to adjust to loneliness and build a new life
DivorcePost-Divorce Life
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