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#RI-6ad1a3a6·6 months ago·
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“marriage”
What Actually Happened
I stopped paying attention to my partner, leading to a comfortable but untruthful narrative about being wronged. This led to a loss of connection and eventual divorce.
What I wish I knew
"I should have prioritized being a partner over being a provider."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Maintenance of love requires showing up, getting curious, and saying uncomfortable things before they become unforgivable."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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divorce Category
5
divorce decisions logged. Avg regret 6.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
40%
of divorce decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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