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#RI-6aacb817·6 months ago·
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Lookback: After 9 years of marriage

“Discovered wife's infidelity through phone”

Found list of men she slept with on phone

What I wish I knew
"She was still being unfaithful during separation"
If I could tell you one thing
"Confront her directly and honestly"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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