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#RI-6a23c8e1·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 11 months

my wife flirted with a friend

my wife flirted with a friend while I was away, spent time alone with him, and went on a trip with him

What I wish I knew
"she would have shut down the flirtation"
If I could tell you one thing
"be honest and communicate openly with your partner"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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