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weight lossDating Motivation
#RI-6aa62188·3 months ago·
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Lost weight for partner motivation

Lost weight but still single, feeling worthless about it

What I wish I knew
"Motivation should be for self, not others"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't base self-worth on weight or relationships"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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