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RelationshipsFamily Conflict
#RI-69ba7652·6 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years together

“Want to move back to home state, boyfriend wants to stay”

Feeling isolated and wanting to be close to family, but boyfriend has a hard boundary about moving

What I wish I knew
"Had the strength to break the relationship off"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate and respect each other's boundaries"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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